After 1 week....

Its been a week after the big day and life have not been too much of a different before this. (this does not take into account of the petrol price hike ). Come to think about it this part of our life will be the longest that we need to go through . We have out childhood which last for like 1-12 , then out school day with friends from 12-23 .. (you can extend it by studying more) but then, a single life which last for like from 23-30/5 or maybe 40 . Still , in the end you will have to bare the responsibilities of being a husband and father, this part of our life will be the longest for like 30-40 years. I am still wondering how good/bad will I be portraying as this 2 characters for these coming years. I wish and hope I will do it just as what my parents had done to me. I guess that will be more than enough to be a good husband/father.

Looking back to my previous entries , I am so happy talking about traveling and now I can see the different being a married man. I have not been overseas for the pass 13 months , except the KK trip. Talking about the KK trip, I 'm so proud to have reach the top of the mountain especially with "her". I always tell myself that since we can both reach the top together going through every single barriers , we will never have problem in future to face any problems together in future. Well, maybe that is the best pre-marriage trip for post of us which we still have no plan for our honeymoon yet. Hope one day when thing allow we will have a wonderful honeymoon as well......

Gangbateh !

Well, I have change the title of this Blog to suit my situation now. All i can describe is that what I'm going through now is just like what I experienced during my hike to the peak of Mt. Kinabalu. The journey to the peak is long and tedious, there are time I wanted to give up and let go. But self believe and metal strength is the most important thing I need to continues the journey. I know I'm not the best and are not competitive to complete with the elite, but all I know my mission is to reach the peak and no matter how hard the journey is step by step I will be there. Finally, I wish and pray hard my determination and hard work will really bring me to my peak of life (just like what i have done at Mt. KK) . As i always believe there will be no journey that is smooth and peaceful, a rough and hard journey of life will make someone more mature and strong.....





I KNOW I WILL BE THERE ONE DAY IN LIFE !!!!!!!!!!

Work Hard for the future.

have been really 7 days a week for the pass 2 weeks. My finger is still aching while I'm typing all this. Sometimes when come to think about it, I'm doing all this for what purpose? Is it for the future of my family? But what am I getting now?

There are lots of issues happening recently. Most shocking is that one of my friend have turn to be my enemy (because he hate me so much , he take me as an enemy) . I know i have done something wrong , but i did apologise but that is not enough for him. He is retaliating by his own words... well, sometimes its a pity that he can't have his own life and live with it.... He likes to live in a world of hatred.... too bad... I have done what i should do...Hope he will have his own problem solve soon....

Another thing is that nowadays its hard to have ppl to work for you. It seem that there are no people to work. that is why i need to do it myself.....

Ok, will update again , and i need to go to work again !

ELECTION - 8th of March

As everyone in Malaysia will know that we will be practising our right as citizen. We will be casting our vote on this coming 8th of March. I tried not to be so political in this blog but I just cant help to post this because i found it really interesting....












Well, all i can see is these few parties contesting each other :-



DAP - Democratic Action Party (Parti Tindakan Demokratik)


AND




PAS - Islamic Party of Malaysia (Parti Islam Se Malaysia)


AND



PKR - National Justice Party (Parti Keadilan Rakyat)


VERSUS THE BIG BROTHER






BN - National Font (Barisan National)


We will all wait and see what will the outcome be, and for sure out BIG BROTHER will be the winner...

Home Sweet Home

Hello, I'm back and will be leaving soon. Went to China - Guangzhou, Guangdong and Lianyungang, Jiangsu. I was there for almost a week and really miss home so much. The feeling are like you miss every little thing in Malaysia when you are there. Although the food and weather there are pretty much the same here now (since it is summer there). Still the feeling of home are not comparable elsewhere. Maybe it is because it is a working trip instead of a holiday trip. well, will tell you how it feel when I come back from Bangkok in a week time (yes, I'm flying again.)

Im Back From "the land of transformation"

Ya, I'm travelling again, and I know I have not even finish my blog about the Shanghai Trip. As usual, I have my personal reason for this particular trip. I'm there to attend my friend's wedding... Very Very old friend of mine.

Finally, I went back to Melbourne - the land of where I grow up and learn. Being a naive and "helpful" person I changed to be a understanding and "care-less" person. This is why I will never forget Melbourne - "the land of transformation"

Melbourne is where I learn what is friendship and life as an adult. I can tell you I met some really fantastic friend in that particular year which I still treasure now. I will not exchange anything for the friendship.We have our Joy , Fun and Sadness to share. Yes I'm talking about you there.

I admit that Melbourne have changed tremendously since I graduated. Furthermore, I can feel that I getting older and older when I walk along the street of Melbourne City. I can remember how fast time passed... From a student lingering along Swanston Street to a "apek" which just sit at the cafe drinking & reminiscing. It was a very nice trip where few of us from the same college reminiscing while having our cafe latte. The people , building , food , weather, and etc. reminds us how thing change and time passed. (and of course it indicate that we are getting older lo )

Well, it is nice to talk about the old days but everyone to face the future. So, I'm back home and working hard for my future ..... GANGBATEH !!! (you, you and you too !)


p.s will continue with my Shanghai trip once I'm free..

"FriendSHIP" - by iamwk.blogspot.com

I COPY THIS FROM ONE OF MY BEST FRIEND WHICH SHARE THE SAME FEELING :-
(written by a person that tells me what is English all about)


it's 1.19am, i should be going to bed but there's a million things running through my head. and i thought i'd overcome the insomnia after so long...oh well, it's almost like welcoming back an old friend...

hmm, old friends...they used to tell me that friends come and go, i never used to believe them. maybe it's due to that wretched side of psyche that remains sentimental way after the time for sentimentality has long passed. it's way past due time to wake up from this...

i wanted it to last till the end, to stand the test of time. it is almost as if it is alive, nurture it and it will grow while neglect brings you naught. i for one have been most guilty of the latter through certain periods in my life, i make no excuses, i acknowledge the errors of my way. but i used to believe in redemption where the errors can be made right again.

sometimes along the way, we get lost and we hurt the ones closest to us, sometimes later on we find them again and rediscover the friendship again. but sometimes that is the end of it, people move on, close that chapter in their life and see no reason in revisiting it again.

ah, but there is no one to blame, everybody makes mistakes. it is just sad when you discover that you no longer matter in the scheme of the person's life, not even for old times sake. but the hurt could just be a simple reflection of the hurt that was initially felt when one first erred. so there is no one to blame...cest la vie

to all my friends, past, present and future and to those who are no longer friends, this is my tribute to you, thank you for having graced my life.

by iamwk

**Thanks for letting me to post ur article here and wishing you all the best in what ever BIG project you are in....... hopefully the "F" words will remain .

Relationship = Money ???

Well, sometimes im wondering is there any close link between relationship and money. Just let us imagine how can us find someone we love which always say " money is not the reason I love u" or " money will not ruin our friendship". How true is it?
For example: - heard about how a 50plus uncle getting married to a 18 years old Vietnamese/indon girl?
how and what make this come true? Money mate !
- heard about gf/bf leaving each other because they want a better live or there are someone richer there for them? Why and what make this happen ? Money mate!
- heard about how ppl end a relationship by requesting their partner to pay back what ever sacrifice they have given? e.g. Money mate !
- Last but not least what do we spend when we are not happy (shopping for girls and clubbing for guys) Money mate !
- Friends being betray and use because of , Money mate ! "no choice ma, cari makan"


So, guess there are the few to tell us there is a strong link between relationship and Money mate ! We are not only talking about relationship in love life but it works out the same for relationship in friendship as well.
It is sometimes so sad to know how money can blind ppl eyes in doing something. ppl can just change just because of Money mate !
Imagine how scary if you are without Money mate ! and of course how successful you will be with Money mate !